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Big Love

Jessica and I watched this tonight. A little racy for TV — the central joke of the first episode is that the husband needs Viagra — and I would say because of that not for Mormon consumption, but it wasn’t particularly heretical. They do make it clear, in dialogue and in a disclaimer at the end, that the characters, after all, aren’t “recommend” Mormons to begin with.

The show follows The Sopranos on HBO, and there’s definitely an attempt to turn Harry Dean Stanton’s patriarch character into a sort of Mormon mafia don, which they’ll need to preserve the audience lead-in. He’s not really that different from the press accounts of people like Rulon Jeffs, such as depicted in the Krakauer book, and I’m sure he’s modeled after him.

There are very few actresses I dislike more than Chloe Sevigny (really, there’s only Juliette Lewis and Sean Young, and neither seems to be working these days). I can’t really put my finger on why I hate her. Maybe because she’s a terrible actor — her affect is flat, her face a blank — and she always looks sleepy. I don’t really like Bill Paxton either. I don’t think either were terrible in this, and they won’t keep me from watching the show.

Some of the dialog seemed realistic Utahn. I was very happy they worked an “Oh my heck” in there, and the highlight of the first episode was a conversation between a regular Mormon teen trying to suss out what ward her chaste-but-polygamous coworker is in. “Are you in MIA Maids or Laurels?” Nobody actually sounds like they are from Utah, though. Everyone sort of talks like they’ve seen Raising Arizona a few too many times.

None of the polygamous characters wear garments. I thought that was weird, but maybe they don’t in real life. Anybody know?

In looking for polygamist reaction to the show, I found this: Principle Voices - What Do You Think of Big Love?. The first (and so far, only) response to the question has nothing to do with the show, but raises concerns about legalizing polygamy, and particularly polygyny, that hadn’t occurred to me: If people start practicing widespread polygyny, will it create a society of outcast angry loser men who can’t get women because all of the non-loser men will have snatched them up, so to speak, by the threes and fours?

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Emily said,

March 13, 2006 @ 11:16 pm

Polygamists are not Mormon period, not just not “recommend Mormon”, so of course they wouldn’t be wearing garments. What makes you think they weren’t, anyway? By the way, from what I know of Utah polygamists, they are not racy in any fashion, so sounds like the show is not tremendously accurate.

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monoglot said,

March 13, 2006 @ 11:28 pm

Remember how I said it was racy? They, uh, weren’t wearing garments.

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Emily said,

March 14, 2006 @ 12:17 am

Steve actually reminded me of a person we knew in Tucson who had grown up in a polygamous family in SLC. We had him over for dinner, and it turned into a 3 hour grill session where we asked him all kinds of questions, and he was happy to talk about it. He was pretty messed up from his childhood. Anyway, I guess in his family some of them were leading double lives–as in, like this guy’s grandfather, went to Mormon church, had temple recommends (for which he lied), was a prominent business person, and nobody knew a thing about his massive wives and children, until his funeral. But, he shouldn’t ‘a been Mormon and wouldn’t ‘a been Mormon if he hadn’t been living a lie.

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Oscarless Oprah said,

March 14, 2006 @ 3:07 pm

“will it create a society of outcast angry loser men who can’t get women because all of the non-loser men will have snatched them up, so to speak, by the threes and fours?”

It exists: See http://www.almost40virgin.blogspot.com

(And no, I don’t know the guy.)

By the way, I apologize for the bad Mormon joke in my novel - it was meant to show the character was ignorant; sorry if it made the book not Mormon safe. Apologies.

Oprah

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CL said,

March 19, 2006 @ 7:46 pm

Thanks for that thank-you card, Ryno. I missed your goofy handwriting. Have a great vedding - and yes, let me know about any and all Philly celebrations.

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monoglot said,

March 19, 2006 @ 8:41 pm

Thanks for your thank-you to our thank-you, Caren! (We could do this for a while.)

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TheWhip said,

April 17, 2006 @ 12:45 pm

Tsk. Honeymoons and busy schedules are no excuse to quit seeing movies!!

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diana said,

April 27, 2006 @ 7:11 pm

I think you need to spend a little less time at work and a little more time watching TV with Jessica. And then writing about it.

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